Do you want people to praise you.............
Everyone of us is hungry to hear Good about ourselves....
But I want to know that, for you, whose praise matters the most..
1) A person who always praises you..
2)A person who never praises you,but when you ask ,he tells you yes u r looking good...
3)A person who tells you the truth ,,when you are looking Good ,he praises you ,,,and if not then tells you frankly...
I know ,nobody wants to hear bad about oneself....
But for me No. 3 category is the best...If someone has the courage to tell you that you are not looking Good,,means his judgement is not biased...So,,when such a person praises you,,then it definitely means that you are looking good..
A true friend is someone who tells you where you are wrong ,so that you can improve yourself....
Sometimes you feel bad ,if someone says you are not looking good,,or you are looking a bit overweight,,or a bit dull,,,but If someone is saying this,,there must bee truth in this,,so you can take this criticism positively,,and improve yourself...
So, have courage to hear truth and speak truth about others,,,,
6 comments:
that is so true sweet girl. It's usually the people who tell how things really are are the ones that are true to you.
thank you for always visiting=)
Hmm...I'm always fixed on this issue...I never know which one to do...
I like those who can say things on my face. They are the real friends.
People praise us to win our hearts, or to get something from us in return, or to avoid from hurting our feelings.
Critiques are sometimes used to help another person to improve, or to purposely discourage the person.
I prefer friends who sincerely tell the truth on what they feel, and help me to improve.
Hey.. I stand by #3... They r the best...
I prefer a balance, not only point the good or only the bad, too much of one thing si not very good and it should always be sincere.
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