36 years of Togetherness

Yes..............36 years....


On 2nd June is my parents' marriage anniversary......
They will complete 36 years of togetherness tomorrow......



I really admire my parents as a couple...

I have never seen them fighting,,quarreling or even talking rudely to each other..

Yes,,you can call them perfect couple...

My mother is a devoted housewife....She has always taken care of our family..
My father is a caring husband and a concerned Father......

Though Physically they do not match perfectly,,,like my father is much taller than my mother.....and my mother is much fairer then my father,,but their hearts match perfectly...

No, no,,,you are wrong,,they did not had a love marriage,,but a fully arranged marriage..what more ,,they had not seen each other before marriage....

So ,,it's their marriage anniversary tomorrow...

On their anniversary I just wish that they have many more years of togetherness......



Happy anniversary Mom and Dad !!!!!

I love you mom and dad.........................

Tagged again!!!!!

Hi friends,

I have been tagged again!!
And this is the second time I have been tagged!!

I don't mind getting tagged,,but yes it deviates you from what you want to write in your blog...

I have been tagged by my friend Dream catcher



Rules of tagging are:-
1) each blogger starts with eight - ten random facts/habits about themselves…
2) people who are tagged need to write posts in their own blog about the tag and post these rules…
3) at the end of your post, you need to choose people to get tagged and list their names…

So, here I start..................



ONE OF YOUR SCARS, HOW DID YOU GET IT???
No scars..................

WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW???
getting married to my friend......

WHAT DO YOU MISS???
Miss the moments spent with my siblings....

WHAT IS YOUR MOST PRIZED POSSESSION???
a ring from my friend…

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SMELL???
smell of gaazar ka halwa…

DO YOU GET CLAUSTROPHOBIC???
Yes…

DO YOU GET SCARED IN THE DARK???
yes,,when i am alone......

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE COLOGNE / PERFUME???
Givenchy…

COFFEE OR ENERGY DRINKS???
it's coffee for me…

IF YOU COULD EAT ANYTHING RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD IT BE???
Fries from Mc Donalds

WHO IS THE LAST PERSON WHO MADE YOU MAD???
My sister

DO YOU SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE??

I speak Hindi,English and a bit of French

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO TELL SOMEONE HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU???
Gift them something..which they needed for a long time

SAY A NUMBER FROM ONE TO A HUNDRED:

Can't say,,just writing ,one

WHAT IS THE ONE NUMBER YOU CALL OFTEN???
my friend....

HAVE YOU BEEN OUT OF INDIA???
never....

WHERE WERE YOU BORN???
at home,India

WHAT DO YOU GET COMPLIMENTED ABOUT MOST???
my sweetness and kindness.


WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY???
Wishes

HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU WANT???
one or two


WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE???
no...

DO YOU WISH ON STARS???
No,,,


DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING???
yes,,,

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT???
Chicken Biryani

ANY BAD HABITS???
trusting people easily


IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU???
definitely!!!


DO YOU TRUST OTHERS EASILY???
yes …and I am sad about it.

WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD???
dolls

SIBLINGS???
2elder sisters and one elder brother

YOU LIKE SUSHI???
Haven't tried yet..


Ok So people I am tagging are

1) Prajyot

2) Aditi
3) Praveen


Ok ,,take care friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let's Dance to the Alexa train

Hey friends!

Do you want to increase your alexa ranking ,,,just join this alexa train..
It will do wonders to your ranking...
Here are the Rules for joining............

This is the train:

~Start Copying Here~
Alexa Redirect Train by Carl Ocab

Rules:

1. Put anything you like above this list – Chit Chat, talkies, introduce what this is. Something like that

2. Start copying on the “~Start Copying Here~” and copy all the things listed without removing the links (Of course, the train would be no use without those links)

3. Move all the sites labeled “Newbies” to the list labeled “Oldies”

4. Add 5 sites that you want to include in the train and make their link like this: http://redirect.alexa.com/redirect?www.example.com then invite them to join the train.

5. Visit all the listed sites! (That’s not much work! Remember, if you plant good seeds they will also grow good) and look at your high Alexa ranking next week!

Newbies

Mylifestartsatfortytwo
Life is just around the corner
The augmented Reality
My life in my words
cognizance


Oldies

PandaCube-A Digital Notebook
My Life and my Views
chococherrycoco
Love Forever

Il protagonista

Beyond Technology
Only GOD keeps me going
Mr & Mrs Imran
My Fairy-Tale
Life in the Fast Lane
The BenSpark
[B][E][A][U][T][I][F][U][L]
7Confessions
Celebrity Brands
Still Frames

Connected Internet
DoshDosh
Lyte Byte

Reflections Of Time
The Cure For Silence

Blog About Money Online
Manila Mom
ScottPot
How to earn money online?
Quasi Fictional
Make Money Blogging!
Make Money Online 2.0
Nate Whitehill
Jozzua
Grow your Writing Business
CultureShiok
Gary Lee
Smart Wealthy Rich
TechZi
Erik Karey: Internet Entrepreneur
Tjantunen.com
Hate The Grind

Earn Money Blogging
be the change - tread the path
Money making Ideas in Blog
cymru66
Cell Rater
Click Fire

~End Copying Here~


so,all the best!!!!!!!!!!!

Just Believe!

Just Believe !!!

Recently, I read an article on optimism in Newspaper..
It was about a book " THE SECRET" by Rhonda Byrne.
This book is about optimism..
This book is stated as the publishing phenomenon of the year,and is said to have sold more than 1.3 million copies in United States alone.


What exactly do we mean by being optimistic..??

According to Oxford Dictionary,
Optimism = inclination to hopefulness and confidence.

while,

Pessimism =tendency to take worst view or expect worst outcome.

So,what you type of a person you are:-
Pessimist or Optimist

I have been an optimist since my childhood.....





The greatest optimistic secret according to the book is
"like attracts like.Everything that's coming into your life you are attracting into your universe.You are the most powerful magnet in the universe...so as you think a thought you are also attracting like thoughts to you."

When you focus on something,
no matter what it happens to be,
you are really calling that into existence
The Secret

If you're an optimist,you'll be thinking happy thoughts,your life will be have happy moments.

I think we all should be optimistic in life and be prepared to laugh off all negativity.....

According to latest studies,
Optimists have more stable cardiovascularsystem,more responsive immune systems.
They also have a stronger sense of self efficacy...

Being optimistic has long been considered an asset when battling an illness or overcoming an adversity.....

Optimists aren't just smiley-faced romantics...They're realists who resolve to solve problems.

If you believe the future will be good,you'll persist through tough times whether you're naturally cheerful or not.


"If you're an optimist working harder at a task,your stress hormones may go up.Your immune system may slip.But it's like doing crunches at a gym.
short term,more crunches hurt.
long term,you get payback in terms of health.

Optimism leads to increased well-being as it leads you to engage actively in life.

How to be optimistic?

Here are some tips for you to become optimistic

1)You can only have one thought at a time

This is the key to feeling optimistic,enjoying your life, and fulfilling your vision for a delightful life.You can keep only one thought in your head at a time.

Dwell on what you want to acomplish..do not dwell on what you do ot want.

2) Expect the best

"A man is what he thinks about all day long."Ralph Waldo Emerson

3)Strong ambition

The people who move moutains,people who get things done,are people who feel a profound sense of mission.

They dive into their projects with gusto.
Every highly successful person is a maniac on a mission.

4)Gumption to change how you think

You have a tremendous opportunity to feel more confident and optimistic than you ever may have dreamed possible.

You can unleash your energy and hone your focus on what you want most.

5)Persistence

Persistence is the key to feeling happy.
Persistent people achieve more then less persisitent people.

"Everything is possible for those, who are persistent."


I liked this article ,,,and I wished to share it with you....I hope you will like it,too .Please do tell me ,,what you think about it.

Follow your Dreams

Dreams !!!!!!!!!

What would be life without dreams?

No, I am not talking about dreams ,which we see while sleeping.

I am talking about the dreams which we see when we are wide awake..

These dreams are our desires,,things we are planning to do.....





I have read somewhere that "Those who dream the most,do the most."

It means that, unless you think about something ,,,how can you do it.
so,for doing something great,you first have to think about it,or in other words,,you have to dream about it.




There is a very nice book titled "ALCHEMIST" by Paulo Coelho,I am going to quote something from that book related to dreams.

1."It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting."

2."People are capable,at any time in their lives,of doing what they dream of."

3."People are afraid to pursue their most important dreams,because they feel that they don't deserve them,or that they'll be unable to achieve."

4."There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure."



I also have seen many dreams for my future life.
I want to marry my boyfriend.
I want to live a loving life with my husband.
I want us to be a successful couple..
Name,Fame,wealth,etc...

I want that some day,our names are familiar to whole world .

I don't know whether my dreams will be fulfilled. or not..

I know it requires dedication,hard work,and discipline to achieve anything big.

I am ready for it...

I just need your best wishes.........

So I want to say that dream,,dream and dream...............
and then work hard to fulfill your dream.

Do you also love Blog Catalog ?

Hey Readers !

Today I am writing this post to tell you how much I like Blog Catalog.

I started blogging in the month of March..
I was looking for ways to increase traffic to my blogsite.

Then One day I came to know about BlogCatalog.

I must say ,that's from that day my blogging life has changed.

Initially I wrote my blog,keeping only my indian readers in mind,,but now I know that my blog is read by people all over the globe,,so now I write my posts,keeping everyone in mind.

Blogcatalog is very simple to use,,no hazzles,etc.

The beautiful widgets :recent readers widget,neighbourhood widgets are superb..

I have added recent readers widget on my blog,,It has added beauty to my blog.

Through this widget,I am able to reach out to so many people...

we can easily add someone as our friend,,and can easily join their neighbourhood...


Let's go to Blogcatalog home page



Want to Know how a blogdetail page looks in blogcatalog ?

want to see my blogcatalog profile (ardu80).


so overall blog catalog is easy to use,easy to understand,,,user-friendly social networking site.

I hope it becomes the largest social networking site soon....

Happy Mother's Day--13 May'07

Mother's Day is a day for celebrating motherhood and thanking mothers. It is held on the second Sunday in May.

Mothers often receive gifts on this day.

In the United States,Tradition calls for the wearing of roses or carnations on Mother's Day — a red one if one's mother is alive, and white if she has died.

This year Mother's Day is on 13th of May.



Mothers are angels sent from heaven above. They sacrifice and give more then you can ever imagine.

Mothers are very special.
They nurture us with love and care.
Mother's Love is a selfless love...
She cares for her child unconditionally.

We should not only respect our mothers ,,but also love them as much as we can.


Today ,I am going to share some quotes about Mothers with you,I hope you will like them:

1)A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.
~Tenneva Jordan

2)The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
~Rajneesh

3)If the whole world were put into one scale, and my mother in the other, the whole world would kick the beam.
~Lord Langdale (Henry Bickersteth)

4)When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.
~Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty

5)Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible.
~Marion C. Garretty

6)Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love.
~Mildred B. Vermont

7)A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning unnecessary."
~ Dorothy Canfield Fisher

8)"God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers."
~ Jewish Proverb

9)Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.
~ George Cooper

10)Mother is the name for god on the lips and hearts of all children
~Brandon Lee

courtesy:Funmunch.com


So,,Happy Mother's Day to all of You..

Gift your mother,your love ,this day....




Happy Mother's Day

Tagged!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi friends !

I have been tagged by Sophiagurl (zhoep).

I am new to this tagging business.

I hope no one will mind my tagging them.

Rules of tagging are:

• List seven (7) random facts/habits about yourself.

• Choose another seven bloggers to tag and list their names in your blog.

• Leave your seven tagged bloggers comments to notify them of their tagging and to direct them to your blog for tag instructions.

Seven habits/facts about me are:-

1)I keep going on dieting regimen now and then....
Infact I love dieting......
I have tried many diets-low carbohydrate diet, low calorie diet.,etc.

2)I love eating out.
I have gone to almost all the restaurants in my city.

3)I love sending cards to people---birthday cards,new year cards,etc.

4)I love using my laptop....I love my laptop....

5)I love travelling.
I want to see the whole world...

6)I hate going to parties.

7)I become very happy when someone leaves a comment on my blog.


Now it's my turn to tag; so I tag:-
1)mylifestartsatfortytwo.com
2)Pietermarbun

3)dya
4)dmgparis

5)holiday
6)godzilla

7)Hem


Thanks to Sophiagurl for tagging me and teaching me this game.


So Keep blogging all of you,,,

bye,take care.

Cute Little One

Hi friends,,

Good day to all of you !!

Have you ever been in company of small kids 2-3 yrs of age..?

It's so nice to be with them,,,ofcourse not as a mother,,since being a mother you have all the responsibilities and tensions,,so you can't enjoy so much..

Recently, my niece (sister's daughter) ,Saumya ,visited us along with her parents,ofcourse.

She is 2yrs,3 months old,,she is really very cute...




Most of the time she repeats whatever she hears,,but sometimes she speaks on her own,too.

It was really fun to be with her...

she knows all the poems,,and her ABC....

I was ready to do anything she wished ,just to make her happy..

whatever she does ,she asks other people to do the same,,,
"aise karo!aise karo ! (do like this! do like this!)"

She is really very soft-hearted,,whenever she sees any kid crying,she becomes worried,and asks us,
"ye kyun ro raha hai (why is he crying) "
Then,we have to tell her all sort of stories,,to release her tension.

She loves to shop ,just like her mother..

Once we went to a shopping mall,I was searching for necklaces and pendants,,,so she also began to choose some for her...

She likes Lays ,coke and Mango-bite.

I had told her that we worship God after taking a bath,,so One day after taking bath,she remembered and went to puja-room,,and for 10-15 minutes she worshipped...she clapped her hands,,folded her hands,,
she sang,"Om jagdish ji,,om jagdish ji,,,,,"
and when someone asked what are you doing,She said,
''mein to puja kar rahi hoon,aarti kar rahi hoon,,,Mausi tum bhi aao na.
(i am praying,singing prayer,,aunty,you also come)"

She is not very naughty,,but very cute....

I bet if you meet her,you can't stop yourself from loving her.

It was really a sad moment,,when she went back....

well,this is life,,,,

I don't know when I will meet her again,,may be after a year,because it was after one and half year,I had met her this time...

Anyway,,now she will always be in my thoughts..........................

SpiderMan-3: My Views

SpiderMan-3

Cast: Tobey Maguire, Kirsten Dunst, James Franco

The Spider Man-3 is a longer movie than its earlier versions.It is of 139 minutes.

Spider Man-3 released in India on May 4.

Yesterday ,I watched Spider Man-3 in a multiplex theatre..
I have also seen its earlier versions-Spider Man-1,Spider Man-2.

Spider Man-3 is a good movie .

There are three villains, a doubting girl friend, a hard-to-resist seductress and some evil alien goop.

Spiderman has too many troubles in this third instalment.

I have heard, that it is the most expensive film of the trilogy..

Harry, spidey's old friend, has become the Green Goblin now.
He thinks that it is spidey who had killed his father..
He is ready to take the revenge..He starts by making spidey's girl friend,Mary Jane, his girl friend...


So Mary Jane has doubts whether she still loves spidey or not..
Mary loses her job,,and she is jealous of spidey's popularity,,so she turns to harry,,,,and finally she tells spidey that she wont meet him again..



There is alien element which makes spiderman more powerful,,but more arrogant and hard-hearted,,now the spidey who used to save people ,is ready to kill people to take his revenge.



His tryst with his evil side does give him a swagger and a sheen as he jives down the mean NY streets,it robs him of all the goodness....


So ,naturally audience feels better when spidey tears off the black-latex costume,made of mysterious extra-terrestrial chemical, and dons his red rubber again,righteously ready to save the world once more.

Then, there is his enemy ,Sand-man.
He is really awesome !!

He has a post-particle physics body that alternates between a sandstorm and a human form with perfect ease.



It is known ,that this is the person who had killed spidey's uncle .
Earlier Black spidey,,tries to kill him...but ..Later Red spidey Pardons him,,as it was not intentional.....


Then there is a photographer in peter parker's office,whom evil spidey had insulted and who had lost his job because of spidey..
He is now the villain ,he dons the alien particle dress and becomes very powerful......



Now both the sandman and this black dress man ,,get together to take revenge with Spiderman...

The most disturbing part of the movie is that ,now spiderman is not so powerful to fight his enemies alone...
He needs help of his friend,harry -green goblin---to fight with these enemies...
In the end Harry dies ,while saving spiderman and his girl-friend...

The lesson Spider Man-3 teaches is that ,we always have a choice to make....As Harry chose to help spiderman inspite of the bitterness he had against him,,we always have a choice to do what is right....

Spider Man-3 is still larger than life when the action cuts begin.
The CGI stuff is still nail-biting even now.

The king-kong kinda climax is block-buster stuff.

Spidey still sends a thrill down your spine as he dizzily bungee jumps across the Manhattan skyline..

But it's sad to see a superhero crying ,or bleeding .....

Is superhero becoming a normal man ?

well,, we don't want that..

Let superheroes be superheroes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.